Feeling the pain

I also am new to REI. Have gone through the PMI education and have been fighting the issues of getting the first deal completed. I also am fighting the negativity of spouse and friends. When they ask for credit reports to be run I got the most resistants from the wife and "see they just want your money. I was unde the impresssion that they would help you get the financing. i was all gungho but have have been fighting demons.