Some people on here know where i started from, so those who dont and feel they cant do this, I will tell you I did it from nothing.
I dont like to post my personal business, but i see too many people saying that they cant do this because of.........
When I bought Deans BARM kit I was kneee high in debt and worrying on what was coming next for me and how i was going to put food on the table for my kids. I was never lazy and worked long hrs and very hard.
My wife got sick, gave up working and then went into depression and spent all our money. CC maxed out mortgage fell behind and so on. I cant tell you how much money I lost but it was thousands.
So to make a long story short (and i am not looking for pity) I had my credit shot and in negative debt and in the process of loosing my home. I bought deans books and started working on things. I failed a lot in the beggining as Rina and Laura know but I kept at it. I hit more obsticals than most people but never gave up. Using Deans technics I found a partner with credit and a lot of equity in his home. He knew what kind of person i was and trusted me 100% with his money. We took a HELOC out on his home and I went to work with the knowledge I got from Deans books and this site. I made tons of calls to banks and others and attended a lot of REI club meetings, even went to another state to a meeting with Laura. So now I have a duplex that is almost finished I am getting myself out of debt and will have positive cash flow coming in soon and working on other deals as well.
So yes you can do it if you really want to. But you have to work for it. nothing worth anything in life is free and no one is going to hand you anything for free.
As my grandfather once told me, YOU CAN HAVE ANYTHING YOU WANT IN LIFE, AS LONG AS YOUR WILLING TO WORK FOR IT. Truest words I have ever heard.
Best of luck to all. And I hope this encoureges someone who really wants to improve their life.
Richie
No money or credit really works!!
Posted on: Thu, 10/21/2010 - 13:38
No money or credit really works!!
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Dont know how I missed this post - but its awesome! Thanks for sharing so much with us all, and your inspiring story on the road to success. Having been following you from the start, I can testify to the fact that you had more roadblocks and no's and obstacles than most can imagine - but you NEVER EVER gave up, and now you are reaping the rewards. They are well deserved and you are indeed a great inspiration to us all.
I do want to comment on titan009's post though. I have to argue with what you are saying. What Richie has done is a perfect example of someone who has nothing completing a deal without money or credit. Finding a money partner is an excellent way to do that, and if you work to put yourself out there, prove you know how to structure and find a great deal - you too can find someone to back you! So Richies hard work and perserverance most certainly falls into the category of doing a deal with none of your own money! So take his example and let that open yet another door for you.
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my story:
http://www.deangraziosi.com/node/10404
Hey Laura, thanks. I posted this to encourage others who feel they are in a worse starting position than everyone else.
It can be done from scratch! Randy is even a better story than me.
work hard and make it happen.
Richie
I love to read forums and blogs just like this one !!
If you are willing to work at it , it will happen ..
Never give up on your dreams .
Randy S.
Elkton , MD
Hey Randy, you are exactly right, work for it and it will happen.
You just have to use the technics Dean shares and put in the effort.
Hey Richie,
I'm so glad you decided to share your story. I wouldn't have guessed any of that about your past since I only know you now and you seem very together when you offer advice. I am in a similar situation. I think talking about it makes us feel vulnerable but I also think that's just how NYers think in general. We don't like to let our softer side show to others we don't know. But I am learning in life in general that sometimes letting out our 'dark secrets' gives us strength and courage to overcome our obstacles. And it can show you as a person who CAN and WILL beat the odds. That's the kind of friend I want by my side. I think it shows character and credibility. I'm proud to be a fighter, and will be even prouder when I can stand in your shoes and look back at what once was me. I feel empowered knowing that many of us here are here with similar obstacles, and that many of you have already gone far beyond your goals. I'm so proud of everyone who has reached beyond society's labels.
EVERYONE HERE PLEASE REMEMBER: YOU ARE MORE THAN A CREDIT SCORE! YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR PAY CHECK! YOU ARE WORTH WHAT YOU DEEM YOURSELF! YOU WILL DETERMINE YOUR SUCCESSES! LIFE IS FULL OF CHOICES, NOW GO OUT THERE AND BECOME WHO YOU WANT TO BE!
(Now who's going to hold me accountable for following my own advice?)
My Best To Every DG member.
-Allison
Life is full of choices, and these choices become your reality... YOU are in control of your future! YOU decide the direction your life will take. YOU have to make things happen, no one will do it for you!
When opportunity knocks, will you answer?
Thank you for your story. It is generous on your part to want share. Again thanks.
When the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
Thank you Allison for the kind words, I love your post and advice to everyone.
It definately is a choice we all have to make, either rise up and over come or lay down and accept it. I always worked my butt off where ever I worked, So for me the work ethic was not the problem. Give it 100% effort and you CAN do it.
I will be watching your steps good luck and keep pushing.
Richie
I posted it for people who are feeling like they have more of a disadvantage than everyone else and are using that to say they cant do it with out really giving it an honest go. You wont be successful if you want to be lazy and wait for someone to do it for you. Follow the steps dean gives and do the work and you will make it.
great story!!! you are living proof that it works. now you will be the one people come to when they need a real estate problem solved. you have definitely shown yourself to be one who perserveres and a great problem solver. thanks for the encouragement!!!
Linda, Army EOD Mom
you can follow my journal at http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/investing-journals/45351/...
IT'S ALL GOOD AND EVERYTHING IS WORKING OUT PERFECTLY FOR ME!
Fear equals:
False
Evidence
Appearing
Real
I love to hear people who r in the same position as me make it in the real estate , keeps me going,cant wait to tell me success story
deekay from iowa
I love to hear people who r in the same position as me make it in the real estate , keeps me going,cant wait to tell me success story
deekay from iowa
I really appreciate your openness about your story. I am sure it will inspire many to keep on working at it even though they run into many obstacles. It also helps me to know where you came from and the progress you are making. I noticed your new picture and I like it. By the way, what or where did B.C. come from?
Tim
Keep on Keeping On !!! Expect it, God has already given it to you. You just need to get out there and grab it!
If you want to follow my journal:
http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/investing-journals/33874
Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
Hey Tim, thanks.
BC is the two first letters of the first and second name of the town I live in.
good luck
Richie
Hey Deekay, sorry i missed your post. sometimes i dont get the notice that someone has commented on my posts.
Work hard at it and attend REI club meetings to make yourself a familiar face. The people running the meetings will help you out where they can if they know your a steady member. REI clubs are the best palce to get inside info on solid HM/PM lenders and other profesionals.
Good Luck!!
Richie
Linda, thanks for the nice comments, I just noticed i didnt reply to you. You are another person who is making it happen. keep up the hard work and continued success.
Richie
Hey Richie,
I wanted to stop by and say hello and ask a question. I've been on this site today a lot and my wheels are turning and I was just wondering if you've ever done assignment of contract in NY?
Life is full of choices, and these choices become your reality... YOU are in control of your future! YOU decide the direction your life will take. YOU have to make things happen, no one will do it for you!
When opportunity knocks, will you answer?