HELP dealing with 'Dream Stealers'

I am not going to complain ever again on this site.

I was just so depressed and frustrated and alone. I hope all those who have close family and lots of support can one day understand how that feels. Silly thing is that after all this time I started to think of some of you, who have inspired me, as a sort of family, my HUGE mistake.

I did not meant to take up too much time and energy, but I felt that I needed to vent, find some others who had been there and worked through it, and this was my only avenue. SORRY to those who found it offensive. SORRY I wasted your precious time. If any of you knew me one little bit you would know that I am a battler and have more practice than anyone at winning against the odds. I forgot that you don't know me. I have been studying all the time no matter what else I have been going through.

Rina, you have been wonderful and I appreciate that. Consider this the last post on this stupid subject!
Thanks again for your support Rina and I will talk to you soon.

Deb
Please don't think that is what I meant when I posted. We are all here to support each other what I was saying was, be strong, don't let others bring you down and NEVER let others determine your destiny. So if I offended you I apologize 1000%. I know I can be abrasive at times but that is because I have been there - too many times. I have had everyone around me making funeral plans when I was sick with the cancer. I had everyone around me telling me how my businesses would fail because I was going to get sick and I had the man I loved for 12 years accusing me of sleeping with everybody under the sun, just because I was trying to build my business and meeting with lots of different people.

Again, If I hurt your feeling with what I said I sincerely am sorry. I am removing my post as I post this one. Have a wonderful day.

I have a long way to go to make my dent in this life and in this strange new country and the RE course. Everything in RE is different where I came from.
As I said. I will never vent on this site again. I have learnt to handle being alone before, and I can do it again. I just get a bit sorry for myself at times. That ends now.

It is still nice to have learnt something new about myself and what is good and bad on this site. This forum ends now too!
Thanks Anita.

Keep up your great success and good health!

In the last comment you don't have to make him feel sorry just show him that you
are 100% positive of yourself and leave it at that.And my prayers are with you
gona get better
Mr.Bill

Prayer will help.

I have disagree with the removed post and some others reply to it.

You can not control other people! If they are negitive to you about something, it is not YOU allowing them to be that way....it's how they are and you can't make them act a certian way....

not havong said that...BUT you can choose how you let it affect you!

You can only control how you let it affect you. You don't want to let someone walk all over you because no one deserves that (and it DOES teach the other person that it's allowed). But you don't want to bail out, either, especially if you love someone or feel very strongly about your vows.
So what do you do? Obviously it's not a cut & dry answer. It took me like 18 years to figure it out. BUT I know that change is possible (if the other person cares at all, and decides they want to change, of course).
I'm sorry, Deb, to add to this forum when you had wanted to end it, but I think there are so many people in the same position. I'm just so thankful to be out of it now, that it's very important to me. I'm not going to share all the details that bring an ache to my heart still, but I'm so thankful that God cares and that other people are so willing to be there when a person needs a friend. I know this has nothing to do with REI, but it has a lot to do with life, and we are ALL a part of that, whether we like it or not. So again, I appreciate everyone who gives a word of support in here to each other, and I also hope that nothing I have said in this forum or any other has brought discouragement to one single person. I have a VERY big heart and am willing to share it with anyone who needs it. I'll talk to you tomorrow, Deb, and believe me when I say we ARE in this together. That goes for everyone here.

Thanks,
Rina

A lot has been said and i hope that we all move forward from here and focus on what's at hand. We're all in here to share ideas and informations on real estate investing. Having said that, let get back on track and start making money. Thanks for everyone's feedback and everybody get back to work.

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Lloydsap

Back on track.

Ok, let makes a lot of money then, lol. You guys are soo cool!