BIG hurdle overcome! My naysayer husband is BEHIND me all the way now!!!!

BIG hurdle overcome! My naysayer husband is BEHIND me all the way now!!!!

Its just amazing what a couple of deals can do, isn't it? As many of you know, my husband has been critical of my entire journey, and has not stood behind me at all. This slowly started to change after taking my first property subject to.

But, with this most recent deal has him ready to take action with me! This was a big hurdle to overcome! Its hard to fight the current all the time! God is great! Thanks Dean for all the advice on ignoring naysayers in our lives! And, now look, he's onboard when the deals start rolling!

I'm STOKED! (Ok, giving away my age using that word!) But, this is a GREAT feeling! Just wanted to share!

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Go Tammy!

So happy for you! You've inspired me to keep plugging. I can more than imagine how you must feel from telling a certain someone about my previous ventures and business ideas. Not telling him a thing until I'm holding my 1st REI check in my hands. He's been really sweet lately, but he tends to be critical instead of trying to understand me. Not taking any chances on this one. He's already gone from masonry to scrubbing toilets. Real estate will be just the thing for our family.

Now your husband thinks you're brilliant, huh? The next time he sees you doing housework I bet he'll be trying to get you to stop, so you can sniff out another deal! I hope he's acknowledged how awful he's been to you. That always helps.

Back on a positive note, your diamond badge looks really good. (I gotta get me one of those! Eye-wink ) I agree with Veronica, God is always on time.

Thanks for the post.


Thanks SuperBee and Roger

Its amazing how he's even watching the kids now so I can get some things done without the little ones crawling on me or the older ones running around being loud. Sticking out tongue

We got the keys to the house yesterday and went in. He can't believe there's not more wrong with it after going inside himself. Found out it also has an alarm, a central vacuum, and a reverse osmosis system. Even the controller for the rather new garage door opener was left. Now I'm going to call a few realtors to find out what the most important features buyers are looking for in homes in that neighborhood right now to help give the most profitable direction in which to arrange the floorplan.

Noticed that beautiful diamond, too. Sticking out tongue 1st Goal to strive for, done!


I wonder....

who on here told you he would come to his senses???

Hmmmmm,......I wonder


Tammy,

Just like CathyB, when I saw the title of this post I knew it was you. You have been such an asset to all of us here by sharing things you've learned along the way. It's no wonder we're all so happy to not only hear you've done this great deal but as a bonus your husband is finally coming around. Thanks for sharing the great news and I pray for your future success.


Thank you Regina

Everyone here has given so much to me. Many people said he'd come around, but living with it daily was very difficult. I am so happy to hear I have helped others on here; I always look up to so many of you and hope I can have some impact on others as well!

Got off the phone with the HML I'm using. I started with one lady who was really great. THe lady she assigned me to is a scatter brain. She was supposed to have submitted my whole packet Wrd, she hadn't even submitted it yet today. Of course he's jumping to the conclusion we're going to lose our $10K first thing, so it not completely gone, but he is helping get quotes on the rehab. I'm sure everything will go through, but lining up a 2nd HML just in case.

It is CERTAIN we will SUCCEED!


nice diamond!!!

congratulations on getting your diamond Tammy-looks good on you Eye-wink
keep posting your deals- you inspire us all to keep going even when negativity surrounds us.
Valerie

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Tammy, You Go Girl.

Congrats on another deal.

Sandra

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eMails

Hi Tammy,
I've been receiving your emails regularly I won't mention here what they are. But I am glad to see you getting yourself comfy in your life amongst all the excitement. Stoked, well you could be between 10 and 60 so hmmmm I'd say dating yourself? Got me guessing. Must be an older picture. haha

Warmest regards

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LOL

It was a common phrase when I was growing up Eye-wink Yeah, the pic is from about 5 years ago. Don't have any current ones without kids on me Eye-wink But, if you're getting emails with my 'little helper', that's a very recent pic. Sticking out tongue Keep guessing. Cool But don't tell!


Awesome Tammy!

I am a little slow, just saw this. Congrats!!!!

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Good feeling

Glad things are moving along for you Tammy & you stuck it out.

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