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Your ability to plan, set goals, and create action plans to accomplish your goals is the mark of someone who is truly successful. This skill to set goals is a life-long endeavor. It is a habit that must be cultivated daily for a lifetime. This single activity will have the greatest impact on your life over any other achievement skill.To be disciplined in setting goals is to sit down with paper and pen and make a list of things you want to acquire, attract or accomplish in the next several years. Earl Nightingale said, "The problem with people is not achieving the goals we set, it is actually the process of setting them in the first place." We are all goal seeking organisms. Your subconscious mind will work on the goal you give it until it is accomplished. You must only set this vast powerful computer in motion by setting the goal.
To achieve a well rounded, joyous life we need to be working toward our goals. When it comes to goals the journey is almost better than the destination. Success was defined by Nightingale as the progressive realization of a worthy goal. You become successful once you set the goal and work towards it. Success is not found only at the attainment level, but also in the striving toward attainment.
You need goals in all areas of your life. It is not good enough to set your sights on your business or commission earnings, transaction sides. You need goals in family, spiritual, physical, financial, and mental areas of your life. This is the only way to achieve balance.
Organize your goals in all areas based on priority. Put the most important ones on the top.
Our overall goal for our life should be to be a continuous goal setter. We need to become so focused and clear on what we desire that every hour and every day we are doing the things that are moving us in our direction of choice and toward our goals.
Studies have shown that you will save ten minutes in execution for every minute that you invest in planning or goal setting. What an incredible return on your investment of time. How often would you invest in an investment that you put in a dollar and got ten dollars back?
Seven Keys of Goal Setting
1. Your goals must be specific, detailed, and clear. You must invest the time to put them in written form. There is a direct link between your writing the goal, seeing it being written, and burning it into your subconscious mind. The goals you desire must be specific, not vague. To set a goal to be rich or be happy will not draw you to it. Well-written goals are like magnets they will you to your desired result. Your goal must be concrete and tangible. Highly defined goals are attained fuzzy goals are forgotten.
2.The goals you set you must be measurable. How can one truly measure happiness? You have to be able to analyze and evaluate your progress and your results in a tangible way. Many people have a goal of being rich. You need to know specifically how much money rich is. Your need to know the specific time period you want to achieve it by. Now that’s a goal.
3. The best goals have deadlines. They have a time by which you need to accomplish them by. They also have interim steps along the way that can be monitored. These sub-deadlines or schedules are critical to success. There are no unrealistic goals; there are merely unrealistic timeframes.
4. Goals need to challenge your to capacity or beyond your current capacity. They will stretch you and mold you into a new person. Jim Rohn wisely said, "It’s not the money that makes the millionaire successful; it’s what he had to become (as a person) to earn a million dollars." If you took the money away from that millionaire that millionaire, would make it back twice as fast as before, because he learned the skill to make it in the first place.
5. Your goals need to possess congruency with your values and beliefs. You goals also have to be harmonious with each other. Let me give you an example, I want to lose 20 pounds, but I also want to eat Dreyer’s Rocky Road ice cream every night before I go to bed. One of these goals will need to give way to the other. They are not congruent with each other. There is no way I can achieve both at the same time. You can not achieve goals that are actually contradictory.
6. Your goals must have balance between your personal life, family, financial, spiritual, physical, mental, and business goals. Just as a wheel needs balance to rotate properly; we need balance to get any where in life.
7. The largest most difficult goal in life is to define your purpose goal. We all have one goal that is at the core of our being. Our life moves to greatness when we decide upon a definite purpose or focus for our life.
I can speak from personal experience. When I determined my "core purpose" was to make meaningful impact in people’s lives for all the people I come in contact with, my perspective changed dramatically. My enjoyment of my day to day "work life" increased.
Fortunately for me, I get to live my "core purpose" daily by helping people such as yourself reach their fullest potential and joy in life.
Really makes you take a deeper look on things. I have never really thought that it could ever go that "deep". Very very wise words here. This is definitely a two thumbs up for me.
You have given me more to think about and consider what my goals need to consist of and what I really need to focus in on....not just those "fuzzy goals".
Our overall goal for our life should be to be a continuous goal setter. We need to become so focused and clear on what we desire that every hour and every day we are doing the things that are moving us in our direction of choice and toward our goals.
^ That was definitely one of the best parts of this forum.
Thank You!
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Very well said. we all need goals. Take action for your goals and you can reach your goals. No action no reaching your goal.
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This is a great post!
... Verses: 35 "but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; They will run and not grow weary, They will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:31 ...
Thank you Sherry for taking the time to post this. Incredible gold nuggets!!
Definitely bookmarked this for routine self checks!
God bless,
Jen
What a great post!
I've always tried to set goals for the day, and for the week, maybe even for the month, but I never really saw the benefit of setting goals longterm as well.
Who knew that the old paper and pen are still great tools for our success!
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I definetly needed to hear that today. Thank you for reminding me to refocus and take charge
When you trust in yourself, you are trusting in the wisdom that created you.
I love to read posts like this .
Words that I need to hear .
Randy Sherman
Elkton MD
In a recent seminar I heard the speaker, Bryan Dodge (he has a web site), ask the class. "Why should you set goals?"
He offered a copy of his book to anyone who could give the answer he was looking for.
All sorts of answers were given ... to take action, to have a plan, to set priorities in your life. He accepted none of these as the answer that he thought was the best reason.
He said, "You set goals because it is your responsibility." Your responsibility to yourself, your family, your life ... you were put on this earth to achieve and that is why you must set goals. You are not here to be mediocre.
thank you for an awesome post and also for helping us strive to achieve our goals.
I WILL ACHIEVE MY GOALS!!!!
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We set goals without actually knowing it. A concerted effort to get up and go to work is a goal, that will allow us to pay the bills and achieve others desires. However, writing them down allows us to review and evaluate if these goals are being accomplished. Goals that will consume a bigger budget must be thought out concisely. For example, action to success: to get to point C, A and B must be out of the way. Not taking action will not get us to point C. You could purchase the book, read the book, but if you do not put the skills and knowledge into action, nothing happens. Excellent Post, well put together. Thanks for sharing.
God Bless
Sandra
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Thank-you for this imformation. Its not just the money, but the good you do with it. The "core purpose" is great.
something i'm terrible about and need to get alot better at in order to have a better focus. that part about saving 10 minutes for every minute of planning is a real eye opener.
just the kind of posts we need to be reading.
keep moving forward, rob
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keep moving forward, rob
I'm currently reading the landmark book- "Think & Grow Rich" & it has a heavy emphasis on setting and achieving well-defined, measurable goals.
I recommend it to anyone who needs to jump-start their motivation.
Thank you for this valuable information.
Persist...until.
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I have read Think & Grow Rich many times -- excellent mark. You should also view videos on you tube of Napoleon Hill discussing personal achievement .
Goal setting is the stair steps to success.
Randy Sherman
Elkton MD
Thanks for reminding us to get focused on where we are and where we want to be.
Best wishes.
Rick Merritt
Trident Realty, LLC
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Great post! This post is worth bookmarking to refer back to, to remind you how important setting goals is for taking action!
Thanks Sherry,
I totally agree with everything you said even if I do largely fail to live by those words. I will keep working in the right direction though. Thanks coach for always steering me back on course.
Steve
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