Dean Graziosi Weekly Video Blog #103 - Breakfast With The Family!

Thank you for another great blog. I love the that you include your kids in what you're doing. Now that's one of my goals. Thank you for everything

Seems i'm having problems finding either one of those. I'm gonna keep plugin away at it.

I look forward to your blog every week. I haven't done a deal yet but I know I will very soon. Thanks for everything you are doing to help us out. The kids are adorable and they are growing fast. Thanks again.

Fale

Hi Dean,

I used that expression too Fake It Till You Make It! I believe that I receive and release my faith for all of God's Best to come to past in my life.

Thank you and Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.

Dean, first you blow us away with the "Rules" to successfully understand and become a Success in Real-Estate and then, those Beautiful children brings it all to Life. Thanks for that experience. Ya' see, I knew you were the Real Thing. Looking forward to learning more about the "Private Money" function. Another Winner I'm sure. Keep going Dean. I'm with you. Dirk.

P.S. I've never really had a problem speaking with people. I just speak on what I know and listen to what I don't know to do research later. I was told I was a Natural Salesman. We all must be Effective Listeners and Communicators of our trade to become
Successsful. Once again Dean, Thanks for your Leadership and Focus.

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Hey Dean thanks for another great lesson. These blogs are always very informative and if anything give a great moral boost. You are an inspiration and thank you as always! FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT, that is just a great bit of info... where were you 20 years ago when I could have made a million before 40, one more year till then, could it be possible? You bet!

Thanks Dean for taking the time to provide us with another very special weekly blog.

Hi Graziosi Family. Dean, I know I’ve told you before and I’ll keep telling you that you have a magnificent family. Your children are adorable. I hope to meet them someday. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about my children when they were that age and the outings we went on and the memories I’ll hang onto forever. It’s a beautiful thing, the image of you and your family sitting at that table enjoying breakfast and family time with your children running around playfully demonstrating that there was no other place on earth they’d rather be at that time than there, having breakfast, with Mom and Dad. To them, that gift of your time is priceless and something they will never forget. To them, the stars are all in perfect alignment and everything is right, everything is in its place, and everything is as it should be. Approximately 40 years ago, the image of the family at the table could have looked somewhat like me with my first two children, except I didn’t have a cool cap like yours.

Now I can’t figure out where the time went. My oldest daughter is 45 and has an incredible son, Brian, who is 13. She lives in Las Vegas (Henderson) and has been working for a pharmaceutical manufacturer for about 20 years. And Dad (me) will be 65 on December 19th. My disability income for serious nerve damage done to my back during one of four back surgeries ends on December 19th. I can make it about five more weeks and if I haven’t found funding by then, I’m going to be writing Stop Foreclosure letters to myself. I felt energized as I read your comments last week and this week about the deals and funding arrangements you’ve been working on. Plus I recently connected with a realtor who shares my general excitement.

Even though I expect that you will be bombarded with similar requests, I’m going to ask you anyway if you could come to my state. I am thankful and blessed to even be on the outskirts of your world. What an honor it would be to meet you in person. Well, thanks again for the weekly blog.

May God continue to bless you and your family and keep you safe from harm.

Terry & Susan

dean,

what a great reminder for all of us !!!

we all know that peoples' perception is their reality. so we should all position ourselves as the expert.ofcourse this means to study, study, study. know what you are talking about. there is no better way to learn than to use this site and all the help that you and the dg family offer !!!
i can't wait to get further info on the hard money lenders and the deals you'll have lined up for all of us.
thanks soooo much !!!
bpilgrim
p.s.,
the kids are great.

i can relate - its all about balance- when i set out to become a RE Millionaire i promised my-self
to still have a life and spend quality time with my family. enjoy them Dean-they grow up quick.

see you at the top

Michael L.

Position yourself and fake it till you make it are 2 great pieces of advice that will go on my wall of Dean quotes!

helps you to remember who you are, where you are, and where you are going.

Needing private money lots these days. Our market is getting tougher to negotiate every day.

thanks Dean,
Ginni

In your email you said hard money. However, in your video you said private money. Which is it?

There are vast differences between the two. If you meant hard money, I'd bet most everyone of your thousands of readers and students have access to hard money in their area. However, hard money is usually at a high interest rate and sometimes requires a down payment. Also, the hard money lender usually wants to personally inspect the property you wish to fund to be sure the deal is viable. And he'll want to see an inspection report, comps and possibly comparable sales.

If you meant private money, the lender still usually wants to see the property he or she is financing. And they'll want a promissory note, mortgage note plus other documents.

As I said in a previous post, there's no way unless you're a billionaire or have access to huge amounts of money, to fund the hundreds or thousands of people who will have deals they want to fund.

It appears most of your students are in the Honeymoon stage of optimism, but when the reality of what's really required to do real estate sinks in they may not be so impressed with your cheerleading videos. I'm not saying that your techniques, that are taught by just about every 'guru' out there, don't work. They are not as easy as they're made out to be.

Thanks Dean,

It is all about family and the time we get to share.

Keep up the buzz and share the love.

Dean,
I completely agree with the phrase "Fake it till you make it!" For the past five years till a contract was up with a buddy who betrayed me was up is all i have been doing is faking it! Now it is the time to position myself and my family to not fake it!
I had a discussion with my father, and that discussion pertains to your blog in a weird way. See my father is the real deal, he has invented a few things that we use everyday. Does he have money, oh yeah plenty but i have to earn mine he says! I love that about my father, most hate if their parents didnt help but he pushes me, and this weekend we had a discussion about how i want this business in real estate and talked about it for years, but its still just talk. He says i dont have the drive yet, i want the drive, but dont have it! So like your post, Scared of failure and he called my bluff, so now im upset and unlike anything before im going to prove the world, him and even more importantly "ME" wrong!
Dean your post are always awesome, and I enjoy them, because they force me to think, force me to look at that dreaded mirror and go "its time." So as my father said this week, "Put up or shut up" I guess i must admit im tired of Faking it myself. Till next week!

Shawn Downey

Thanks Dean for all you do for us your DGFamily, but at the same time, don't forget to share your life with your immediate family, your wife, your kids, enjoy them always and as much as you can they grow to fast.
I will be waiting as usual each Monday for your news and your encouragement. Thank you again, and have a nice week. BE SAFE.

Adamina

I'm so excited and can't wait to hear more.
Also, your little ones are soooo cute!
-Kay

First of all....CUTE KIDS!!! Aren't kids great, they have a way of getting you to stop and forget about all your worries!!

What can I say, Dean you are the best! You are the real deal, and you are always looking for better ways to help you students!

I look forward to these blogs every week, there is always something different and you never know what to expect. Keep up all your great work and look forward to seeing you in the near future.

Happy Holidays!

Chris

Thanks for taking the time to keep us all going. Another great blog and "Fake it to Make it". WOW just what I needed.

You have beautiful children! Kids are great, they make us want to be more for them! Even though I have trouble faking it and I get frustrated, you inspire me and give me hope! I know I will never give up, thanks!!!

Hi Dean,
I just wanted to tell you how great to see your kids. My kids are the main reason for my joining your organization. They are my inspiration, they are 8 and 6 and they are my joy and happiness.

I like what you said about positioning ourselves right. I still have sense of fear of the deal because of a bad real estate experience a while ago. That is why your videos keep me on track to get to my goals of securing a good life for my kids.
Thank you,

Mary

Fake it till you make it ? Man I always have disliked that term. Until now. I'm one of these have-to-know-everything-first kind of people, but that's taking too long. Paradigm shift for me.
I'll position myself by talking the language of real estate and excelling at what I do know until I get there. Anyway it's an ever changing business anyway and Dean, you're always telling us things you've learned which means you don't know it all either and that, my friend, is encouraging.
To success, Rick

Thank you for another great blog!! Can't wait to hear the news about private money and see what kinda deals you have coming. Kids are so fun!! Thanks again Dean.

Mark

We really enjoyed your latest blog, especially your munchkins. We are looking forward to hearing more on the money lenders. They might be just the thing we need to get off and running. Looking forward to the deals too.

Hi Dean,

Enjoy watching you spending time with your kids, I have a granddaughter that I simply adore. The children are truly a blessing.

You know I must say that when I speak with RE Agents about locating short sale properties they ask questions and sometimes I don't have the answers. It's okay not having the answers because I can come here and research the answer or contact a DG Family Member. What I'm surprised about is the confidence that I exude when I'm speaking.

As I read over and over again, I'm stopping myself. However, I am determined to stay focused. There are many obstacles to overcome and will share as I overcome.

Thank you for your continued support.

Michelle W
"Great Expectations"

Wish we all had the energy of kids. Just watched the grand kids today, it was non stop.

Looking forward to getting more information!!!

Thanks a lot, Dean, for helping us. Please continue to enjoy your beautiful kids.
I am exciting to see what you'll come up with for us in the next two weeks.
-pierre

I wanted to learn more about lease options and how to make money on them. I have a couple who can not purchase a home due to credit. They are in process of cleaning it up. They estimate that they will have their scores high enough within 6-8 months. They have some money around 4-5K for a home around 4,500-5K. I suggested them to do a lease option. They are interested and want me to help them. Where can I get more information on how to structure a transaction. i.e. step by step reference. Thanks

I can't wait to get a private money loans, and hard money loans can't cut it but is okay for Repairs for it. Thanks for your support Dean.

David B

Wonderful family and nice blog! I can't wait to find out how the lending will work. I'm still pressing on with real estate investing! Thank you Dean!