DONT CRY IF YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL

DONT CRY IF YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL

OK Guys I am going to call it like I see it. Dean Gives you all the tools you need to succeed. You cannot change the curves life give you. But you can change what you do. It so easy to blame what life has throw in front of you. My spouse is sick, I have no money. My credit is shot. Been their done that. Been on the top and I have seen the bottom. The only thing I could change was my self. and If I really loved the people around me and take care of what cards were dealt me I had to take action, and be responsible for my action. If you want to whine and cry please don't PM me. I only want positive people in my life. If you want to succeed I am more than willing to help. If this post hurts your feelings I am truly sorry, But I think its time you take a look in the mirror. My Journal explains were I come from and what I have done. And yes I an sure their is people worse off than me. But bottom line is I choose to succeed. Last thursday I had a bad encounter with A Pitt Bull. She got me dead in the nuts. The ambulance wanted me to go to the hospital. I choose not to because i had appointments set up. And I made everyone. WHY. Because I want to be successful. So Just take a moment and decide to you really want it, Are to you want to set around an blame someone else. I truly wish you all the best of luck. And Dean think you for the success academy and all your great staff. And everything you do to help people that want a better life.

Randy

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BOB

Thinks for stopping buy, I will check it out;

Randy

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thanks for sharing

Randy,

you and many more on this website help me continue on this REI journey; I joined the Academy in September, and every day I look forward to finishing my workday so that I can come home and spend time on my investing career- even when I feel exhausted, I find it hard to get away from this website and from studying DG's manuals.
Just wanted to let you know that your words of advice and your accomplishments are very encouraging to us who are just beginning.
Thanks for sharing!
Valerie

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Valuni

Thinks words like yours is what keep me going.

Randy

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Randy

I always love your post,to the point' I admire your positive attitude, It was from journals like yours I get very motivated. I PM you several times and never got an answer. But, you think that made me CRY. No it made me push harder to the point where I document my Day to day Activities to show you at this year's Edge. You and Julie will Laugh. You do not have to apologize to anyone because it is the Truth. You can make Excuses or Money. I personally Choose Money Since Randy is too busy to reply to me. Hey, you keep the post coming. Looking forward to see you at the top. Give my regards to Julie.
Veronica.


Cheers!

Randy,

Cheers to keepin' it real! It is what it is.

Jennifer

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Randy

Great post it needed to be said. We try to help the ones that struggle with REI. Some take the advice and some do not. It takes action if you have money or if you do not have money. No action no REI.

Thanks Randy.

Steve


Thanks Randy

for your post and comments. I was just thinking this very week that this road to riches is a lot of hard work. I've been at it for about a year and still haven't made a check yet, but somehow that doesn't get me down. I keep seeing what is in front of me and what is coming. My first "flip" became a flop and now I'm trying to rent it. Two weeks ago someone broke in and stole the brand new hot water heater. Two days ago the main water line broke for the second time. Well, at least it didn't break inside the house! And there are two potential tenants interested....and my new flip is in a much better neighborhood and got a higher ARV appraisal than I even expected.

I'M STILL EXCITED! I'm exhausted from working a full time job and putting every minute of energy into a new business, BUT I'M STILL EXCITED. And no matter what....I keep putting one foot in front of the other. You have to go forward on the road to get there!

Hope you feel better!

Margaret


Honesty is AWESOME, especially with RANDY, I see!

Man, Randy, those words go a long way toward encouraging those of us who get frustrated and keep telling ourselves, "It will work out!" over and over. YES it will take time, YES it will not be easy, YES you have to be honest with yourself and decide if you really are committing to this right now or you're not. To those that read this and are offended, come back another day when you can read it again and laugh.

I think we also learned that you are truly a giving, SACrificing type (yes, couldn't resist my own silly comment!) Laughing out loud

You seem like a great character and I do hope to meet you someday; at the EDGE, in the waiting room in Urgent Care, wherever! Take care and continue to keep us honest!!

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Randy

Great post. There is one thing that we always say is:
"Show me a Burning Desire and I'll show you a Successful Person!"
You have the desire and you are and will be very successful.
Thank-you!
To Everyone's Success!
Laura
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Re: Don't cry ....

Ouch sometimes the truth hurts but Randy I think you hit the nail right on the head! I'm a firm believer that the only things in life we can truly control are ourselves and our reactions to external events. And most of us including myself have a hard time with both of these but they can be achieved. Everything else we are told about control is just a delusion based on statistical inference i.e. I've turned the light on by using the switch the last 99 time I've tried so I control the light coming on. Well what happens when the bulb burns out, or the electricity goes off, or there is a short in the cord how much control of the light do you really have? We can make a choice to succeed or not. To use the information and tools that Dean and the Success Academy provides or not. Ultimately it is up to us to succeed or fail. To paraphrase Napolean Hill success comes to those who are ready to receive it.

Tony

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TONY

WOW, Very well said. And hope all is going well.

Randy

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Laura51

Please send me you number again. I have somehow lost it. Not surprised. Would like to get with you when I am back in KC. i am almost living their NOW.

Randy

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pm

Hey guys I went back threw my pms, Not sure what I have been doing. but a lot of them I answer has not been going threw. but i do try to answer all. I guess i will have to start double checking them all. Believe me I don't want to leave anyone out, This is the least I can do for what i have received.

Randy

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pm

Hey guys I went back threw my pms, Not sure what I have been doing. but a lot of them I answer has not been going threw. but i do try to answer all. I guess i will have to start double checking them all. Believe me I don't want to leave anyone out, This is the least I can do for what i have received.

Randy

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The Truth Hurts

Randy,

The truth hurts but it is the truth that spurs one on to success. Thank you for your words of wisdom. Step by step.

Michelle W
"Great Expectations"

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Michelle

Thinks for stopping by. Wish you the best of luck.

Randy

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Margart

Well the upside to all of this at least you are taking action. Just keep your head held hi. i am sure their are some great deals calling your name.

Randy

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So right Randy428

Your so right about being positive everyday because it is so easy to be negative and cause your day to go bad. If your negative during the day realize that you are wasting more energy being upset and will not find ways of getting things done. Everyone must know that this world does not owe you anything and if you want something you have to work hard to get what you want and develop an attitude that allows you to be creative when things are going bad instead of sitting in the corner giving up. Look at it like this there is so many people that get up everyday and go to a job they hate, but they have been doing it for years so because you do not like what someone said to you or it is taking you awhile to find your first deal do not give up because you are being tested to see how motivated you are to do this and remember that you have to have a passion for this business, just do not think you can jump on and ride the success wagon with everyone else. For people who are passionate about real estate you have to create a system to get people calling you and finding deals and work that system to the t. Meet with people in your area and network by attending functions because no one will know what you do if you stay in the house and hope your phone ring with a deal. Good Luck everyone and God Bless! Keep up the work Randy428, still making those appointments after getting bit is truly showing your commitment to success.


Great Post

What Randy, you sure know how to give that sucker punch. You remind me of many other straight forward people on site who says it like they see it. Way to go. We have to be always reminded that success will not come by constant complaining. By the time all the complaining is over, the market would have turned around and we would have lost our opportunities. You are being honest and giving some tough love here. If we cannot take this advice, then this business is not for us. Thanks Randy for just being you. God bless,

Sandra

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Sandra

Great to here from you. Hope things are going well. And yes everything you said is so true.

Randy

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Investoer22

I really like what you said. and yes I was one that it took me a while to figure out what would work best for me. So what it took 9 months. But The rewards were unbelievable. And if anyone hangs with negative people all the time this is almost impossible.

Randy

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Negative people in your life are unavoidable sometimes

randy428 wrote:
And if anyone hangs with negative people all the time this is almost impossible.

Randy

Unless you have no choice but to be around someone who's negative all the time. Best thing in that situation is learn how to defend yourself against them and turn on the IGNORE button. I found stopping them from saying something negative before they're finished forcing their negative on you " ... ahhh, ehhh, ehhh... NO, no, you can't say that until you say 3 positive things about your day." Makes 'em walk away.

Also, one time the negative person even said 'nothing positive happened today' so I told him that it looks like he can't say what he's going to say then. Shut him up and he walked away. Laughing out loud

PS: Won an auction today, hoping Fannie approves it as it didn't meet the reserve.


Zion,

Zion Properties wrote:
randy428 wrote:
And if anyone hangs with negative people all the time this is almost impossible.

Randy

Unless you have no choice but to be around someone who's negative all the time. Best thing in that situation is learn how to defend yourself against them and turn on the IGNORE button. I found stopping them from saying something negative before they're finished forcing their negative on you " ... ahhh, ehhh, ehhh... NO, no, you can't say that until you say 3 positive things about your day." Makes 'em walk away.

Also, one time the negative person even said 'nothing positive happened today' so I told him that it looks like he can't say what he's going to say then. Shut him up and he walked away. Laughing out loud

PS: Won an auction today, hoping Fannie approves it as it didn't meet the reserve.

Great techniques, Zion. Hope you don' mind, but I'm gonna quote your comments on another thread about staying positive! (here: http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/everything-else/62948/sta...)

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Zion and Kevin

Great to here form both of you.

Randy

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PM

OK i have gone back thru my pm to make sure I got everyone. If I did miss you please reply again. and i will get to you.

RANDY

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LOOKING BACK OVER POST

I was looking back over the post. I was really impressed at the people that replied. All the comments were positive. I really think this is GREAT. Everyone should pat themselves on the back. It doesn't hurt to do that once in a while.

Randy

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I could cry

But I want. This has been one of those weeks that could drive a person insane. But I guess this goes along with success. It just shows me no one is amund to problems. But i will make sure i keep my glass half full. Well I guess I need to get off of here and do the next best thing. Get my game plan into action. Just the next challenge to succeeding.

Randy

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Great...

Attitude Randy. I notice alot of cryers and complainers in life ESPECIALLY when it comes to RE and such. Nice to see you and others on the site can stay straight and not let the waves of life get you down. Always build your house (life) on the rock and not the sand and you'll stand strong.

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Spam

Since when was there spam on this website? Someone ban wangansa1x. All of his posts are links to weird websites, and even the words he chose to combine make absolutely no sense...

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Exactly right!

Hi Randy,
It's been a little while since you started this thread so I hope your feeling better. What happened to the Pit Bull? I love dogs but I wouldn't blame you if that thing became a stuffed animal! I know what you mean about whining, I was going to start a similar subject but wanted to wait as I haven't closed a deal yet. I figured it would carry more weight when I'm "successful" (yes you can see by the wording that I leave no doubt it will happen). I am speaking from personal experience, I don't think people mean do it, but on this site it's easy to find a sympathetic ear because we've all been there. In my opinion it doesn't help anything. All it did for me was give me an excuse, "look at all my problems, of course I'm not getting a head yet", and as soon as your in that mind set your done. Unfortunately it took me nearly three years of starting and stopping to figure this out, I kept coming back with that same defeatist mentality. Once I "got over myself" I have seen amazing results, I haven't completed my first deal yet but I've laid the ground work and it's only a matter of time. I quit my second job so I could give this my maximum effort, my confidence is through the roof, and I'm having fun. I hope a lot of people read this thread as it is very relevant to success. One of the things i have learned is to talk about things the way I want them to be and not worry about how it is in the moment. Thanks for the great post Randy!

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