OK Guys I am going to call it like I see it. Dean Gives you all the tools you need to succeed. You cannot change the curves life give you. But you can change what you do. It so easy to blame what life has throw in front of you. My spouse is sick, I have no money. My credit is shot. Been their done that. Been on the top and I have seen the bottom. The only thing I could change was my self. and If I really loved the people around me and take care of what cards were dealt me I had to take action, and be responsible for my action. If you want to whine and cry please don't PM me. I only want positive people in my life. If you want to succeed I am more than willing to help. If this post hurts your feelings I am truly sorry, But I think its time you take a look in the mirror. My Journal explains were I come from and what I have done. And yes I an sure their is people worse off than me. But bottom line is I choose to succeed. Last thursday I had a bad encounter with A Pitt Bull. She got me dead in the nuts. The ambulance wanted me to go to the hospital. I choose not to because i had appointments set up. And I made everyone. WHY. Because I want to be successful. So Just take a moment and decide to you really want it, Are to you want to set around an blame someone else. I truly wish you all the best of luck. And Dean think you for the success academy and all your great staff. And everything you do to help people that want a better life.
Randy
Thinks for stopping buy, I will check it out;
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Randy,
you and many more on this website help me continue on this REI journey; I joined the Academy in September, and every day I look forward to finishing my workday so that I can come home and spend time on my investing career- even when I feel exhausted, I find it hard to get away from this website and from studying DG's manuals.
Just wanted to let you know that your words of advice and your accomplishments are very encouraging to us who are just beginning.
Thanks for sharing!
Valerie
Valerie
“And will you succeed? Yes indeed, yes indeed! Ninety-eight and three-quarters percent guaranteed!” ― Dr. Seuss
"I believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends; I am surrounded by angels, but I call them friends" - Unknown
My journal: http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/investing-journals/59110/...
Thinks words like yours is what keep me going.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
I always love your post,to the point' I admire your positive attitude, It was from journals like yours I get very motivated. I PM you several times and never got an answer. But, you think that made me CRY. No it made me push harder to the point where I document my Day to day Activities to show you at this year's Edge. You and Julie will Laugh. You do not have to apologize to anyone because it is the Truth. You can make Excuses or Money. I personally Choose Money Since Randy is too busy to reply to me. Hey, you keep the post coming. Looking forward to see you at the top. Give my regards to Julie.
Veronica.
Randy,
Cheers to keepin' it real! It is what it is.
Jennifer
"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one."
Elbert Hubbard
Great post it needed to be said. We try to help the ones that struggle with REI. Some take the advice and some do not. It takes action if you have money or if you do not have money. No action no REI.
Thanks Randy.
Steve
Steve and Veronica
Steve and Veronica's Journal.
http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/investing-journals/58073/...
http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/totally-fulfilled/72344/d...
for your post and comments. I was just thinking this very week that this road to riches is a lot of hard work. I've been at it for about a year and still haven't made a check yet, but somehow that doesn't get me down. I keep seeing what is in front of me and what is coming. My first "flip" became a flop and now I'm trying to rent it. Two weeks ago someone broke in and stole the brand new hot water heater. Two days ago the main water line broke for the second time. Well, at least it didn't break inside the house! And there are two potential tenants interested....and my new flip is in a much better neighborhood and got a higher ARV appraisal than I even expected.
I'M STILL EXCITED! I'm exhausted from working a full time job and putting every minute of energy into a new business, BUT I'M STILL EXCITED. And no matter what....I keep putting one foot in front of the other. You have to go forward on the road to get there!
Hope you feel better!
Margaret
Man, Randy, those words go a long way toward encouraging those of us who get frustrated and keep telling ourselves, "It will work out!" over and over. YES it will take time, YES it will not be easy, YES you have to be honest with yourself and decide if you really are committing to this right now or you're not. To those that read this and are offended, come back another day when you can read it again and laugh.
I think we also learned that you are truly a giving, SACrificing type (yes, couldn't resist my own silly comment!)
You seem like a great character and I do hope to meet you someday; at the EDGE, in the waiting room in Urgent Care, wherever! Take care and continue to keep us honest!!
Sincerely,
Kevin A Goldman
Goldman's Gardens Real Estate, LLC
Wholesale Real Estate Investing
Great Success to Us All!
My Journal: http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/investing-journals/62066/...
Why do I deserve this? Because everyone should be able to enjoy their life, not struggle through an existence.
Great post. There is one thing that we always say is:
"Show me a Burning Desire and I'll show you a Successful Person!"
You have the desire and you are and will be very successful.
Thank-you!
To Everyone's Success!
Laura
BMW Investment Properties LLC
www.bmwinvestproperties.com
Ouch sometimes the truth hurts but Randy I think you hit the nail right on the head! I'm a firm believer that the only things in life we can truly control are ourselves and our reactions to external events. And most of us including myself have a hard time with both of these but they can be achieved. Everything else we are told about control is just a delusion based on statistical inference i.e. I've turned the light on by using the switch the last 99 time I've tried so I control the light coming on. Well what happens when the bulb burns out, or the electricity goes off, or there is a short in the cord how much control of the light do you really have? We can make a choice to succeed or not. To use the information and tools that Dean and the Success Academy provides or not. Ultimately it is up to us to succeed or fail. To paraphrase Napolean Hill success comes to those who are ready to receive it.
Tony
Tony
WOW, Very well said. And hope all is going well.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Please send me you number again. I have somehow lost it. Not surprised. Would like to get with you when I am back in KC. i am almost living their NOW.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Hey guys I went back threw my pms, Not sure what I have been doing. but a lot of them I answer has not been going threw. but i do try to answer all. I guess i will have to start double checking them all. Believe me I don't want to leave anyone out, This is the least I can do for what i have received.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Hey guys I went back threw my pms, Not sure what I have been doing. but a lot of them I answer has not been going threw. but i do try to answer all. I guess i will have to start double checking them all. Believe me I don't want to leave anyone out, This is the least I can do for what i have received.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Randy,
The truth hurts but it is the truth that spurs one on to success. Thank you for your words of wisdom. Step by step.
Michelle W
"Great Expectations"
Michelle W
Great Expectations
Thinks for stopping by. Wish you the best of luck.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Well the upside to all of this at least you are taking action. Just keep your head held hi. i am sure their are some great deals calling your name.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Your so right about being positive everyday because it is so easy to be negative and cause your day to go bad. If your negative during the day realize that you are wasting more energy being upset and will not find ways of getting things done. Everyone must know that this world does not owe you anything and if you want something you have to work hard to get what you want and develop an attitude that allows you to be creative when things are going bad instead of sitting in the corner giving up. Look at it like this there is so many people that get up everyday and go to a job they hate, but they have been doing it for years so because you do not like what someone said to you or it is taking you awhile to find your first deal do not give up because you are being tested to see how motivated you are to do this and remember that you have to have a passion for this business, just do not think you can jump on and ride the success wagon with everyone else. For people who are passionate about real estate you have to create a system to get people calling you and finding deals and work that system to the t. Meet with people in your area and network by attending functions because no one will know what you do if you stay in the house and hope your phone ring with a deal. Good Luck everyone and God Bless! Keep up the work Randy428, still making those appointments after getting bit is truly showing your commitment to success.
What Randy, you sure know how to give that sucker punch. You remind me of many other straight forward people on site who says it like they see it. Way to go. We have to be always reminded that success will not come by constant complaining. By the time all the complaining is over, the market would have turned around and we would have lost our opportunities. You are being honest and giving some tough love here. If we cannot take this advice, then this business is not for us. Thanks Randy for just being you. God bless,
Sandra
"You can never get to the top, if you are not willing to climb. Do not look at the difficulty of the climb, only anticipate the view from the top."
"Can't even walk without you holding my hand." (Song)
"Is anything too hard for the Lord ..." Genesis 19:14
"In all things, wait on the Lord."
"Think not of your own deliverance, but trust in God who will give in abundance."
"When you are down to nothing, God is up to something." Unknown
"Our lives begin to end, the day we become silent about those things that really matters." Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Great to here from you. Hope things are going well. And yes everything you said is so true.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
I really like what you said. and yes I was one that it took me a while to figure out what would work best for me. So what it took 9 months. But The rewards were unbelievable. And if anyone hangs with negative people all the time this is almost impossible.
Randy
www.adeptpropertiesllc.com
Randy
Unless you have no choice but to be around someone who's negative all the time. Best thing in that situation is learn how to defend yourself against them and turn on the IGNORE button. I found stopping them from saying something negative before they're finished forcing their negative on you " ... ahhh, ehhh, ehhh... NO, no, you can't say that until you say 3 positive things about your day." Makes 'em walk away.
Also, one time the negative person even said 'nothing positive happened today' so I told him that it looks like he can't say what he's going to say then. Shut him up and he walked away.
PS: Won an auction today, hoping Fannie approves it as it didn't meet the reserve.
Randy
Unless you have no choice but to be around someone who's negative all the time. Best thing in that situation is learn how to defend yourself against them and turn on the IGNORE button. I found stopping them from saying something negative before they're finished forcing their negative on you " ... ahhh, ehhh, ehhh... NO, no, you can't say that until you say 3 positive things about your day." Makes 'em walk away.
Also, one time the negative person even said 'nothing positive happened today' so I told him that it looks like he can't say what he's going to say then. Shut him up and he walked away.
PS: Won an auction today, hoping Fannie approves it as it didn't meet the reserve.
Great techniques, Zion. Hope you don' mind, but I'm gonna quote your comments on another thread about staying positive! (here: http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/everything-else/62948/sta...)
Sincerely,
Kevin A Goldman
Goldman's Gardens Real Estate, LLC
Wholesale Real Estate Investing
Great Success to Us All!
My Journal: http://www.deangraziosi.com/real-estate-forums/investing-journals/62066/...
Why do I deserve this? Because everyone should be able to enjoy their life, not struggle through an existence.